It is a most miserable thing to feel ashamed of home.
Charles Dickens
Source, Great Expectations, 14
Why This Quote Matters
Pip reflects on the misery of being ashamed of home in chapter 14 of Great Expectations. Charles Dickens places the thought within the narrator's growing discomfort with his circumstances and his attachment to Joe. The surrounding passage does not pretend that home was always pleasant. Its pain comes from a more complicated mixture: real difficulties, genuine affection, and a new desire to measure everything through social comparison.
That mixture makes the quotation more useful than a simple demand to be grateful. Wanting different circumstances can be understandable, while contempt for the people and places associated with an earlier life may carry its own cost. Pip begins to see familiar things through an imagined superior audience. The change damages his ability to recognize the value that was already there. Dickens lets ambition and embarrassment coexist, exposing how easily the wish to rise can become the wish to disown.
The ginger cat comfortable in a humble kitchen doorway gives home a warm and unpretentious face. Scuffed wood does not prevent the scene from feeling welcoming. The picture does not claim that every home is safe or that leaving is wrong. It simply offers a useful counterimage to social shame: a place can be ordinary, imperfect, and still contain a kind of belonging that an impressive address cannot automatically supply.
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